Recipe For Chaos

Real Stories From The Chaotic Front

Motivation…NOT. Apparently Diets Are Like Laundry.

I know that thus far my blog has, almost exclusively, been about my kids, and finding joy in the chaos. Well, it’s supposed to be about life. My life, raising all these boys.

I have been talking about losing weight for a while now. I’ve even spoken to a Dr. The thing is…when the Dr. said. “Great, what have you been doing so far?” I responded with….Well, I’m reading this book…. His jaw dropped and he put his head in his hands and laughed..I kid you not. He LAUGHED at me.  He thinks I may have to do a bit more than read it seems, but he said, “At least your motivated.” I even started a group on facebook for those of us attending a HS reunion this summer.. and have yet to follow the advice posted there. I kept looking for something that would rejuvenate my motivation, an Epiphany or something that would magically change the way I think about food and exercise. Maybe I was waiting for the “magic pill”  that would transform me overnight. I’m going to share with you one bit of wisdom from the book I was reading (yes, the Dr. book) by Jennette Fulda called “Half-Assed a weight-loss memoir“. It is in response to someone asking her how she stayed motivated ” I should have just told her to screw motivation. If I waited for motivation to do the dishes. I’d have plates stacked on my counter so high that I couldn’t open the microwave. Which I currently did. I was never motivated to do my dishes. Yet I turned on the faucet and poured out some dish soap anyway. It wasn’t because I wanted  to have fun with bubbles, It was because I had to. I couldn’t bring myself to eat off paper plates. ”

The thing is, I finally realized you just HAVE to do it. Everyday, in every way, just do what you have to do. Like dishes and kids, it has to be part of a routine that becomes second nature. Want to has nothing to do with it. Diets like laundry just have to be done correctly, and constantly.  LIKE IT OR NOT. Not exactly a sign from God…but, close enough.

FYI-Two of my favorite diet memoirs…(I prefer memoirs to diet books because no diet works the same for two people)

  • Half-Assed a weight-loss memoir by Jennete Fulda. First hand account of what she went through with out dishing out advice. Her blog is
  • Such a Pretty Fat” One Narcissist’s Quest To Discover If Her Life Makes Her Ass Look Big, Or Why Pie Is Not The Answer by Jenn Lancaster, whose blog is .One of the funniest books I’ve ever read. Tears sprung from my eyes at points I was laughing so hard.

Oh, and by the way…discovered the books before the blogs. LOL


February 22, 2009 Posted by | Diets | , , , , , , , , , , | 7 Comments

Valentine Post #3


My mother took the boys Valentine shopping for me. I got a lovely rose and this basketball themed box of assorted chocolates. Gavin saw it and said…”Did you chose this one because Mom likes basketball?”  One of them responded. “Nope, I do, but she sure does LOOOOVE chocolate!”

Just too funny not to share, diet starts again tomorrow!

February 16, 2009 Posted by | General Mayhem | , , , | 7 Comments